Why people get angry when you shine
and why you must not apologize for it.
The Source of the Signal
Your light is your root. It is the source of your soul. It does not depend on the reaction of the audience. To allow this light to flow correctly, you must first stand in your own place. You cannot radiate and apologize at the same time.
The Physics of Anger
When a person is not ready to receive light, they often react with anger, criticism, or resistance. This is not a sign that your light is “incorrect.” It is a sign that their vessel is not adapted to receive that specific frequency.
Think of it as voltage. If you send high voltage into a system with low resistance capacity, the system heats up. The “heat” is the anger. Do not try to change their reaction. The reaction belongs to them. The light belongs to you.
The Separation
You must make a surgical separation between “The Light” (Who you are) and “The Vessel of the Other” (What they can handle). Any hatred, fear, or judgment they feel is part of their internal structure. It is not yours. Do not import their limitations into your system.
The Strategy of Influence
True influence is not about convincing the resistant. It is about locating the receptive. Focus on those who are ready. Focus on those whose vessels are open. That is where the work happens.
If you encounter resistance, accept it. Resistance is often a sign that the light has penetrated deep enough to hit a blockage. It means the work is real. But do not get involved in the cleanup.
The Protocol
Maintain internal calm during and after the interaction. Do not try to “fix” the person. Do not try to “explain” yourself. The Light knows the job. It does not need your management. Stay in your lane. Be a precise conduit. The impact does not depend on the crowd. It depends on your willingness to be a clear signal in a noisy world.
Translated from the Hebrew Transmissions of Ruth Kedem
ORIYA’S NOTE
We are trained to be People Pleasers. We think: “If they are angry, I must have done something wrong.” So we dim the light. We lower the voltage. We apologize for existing.
But the architecture of influence suggests the opposite. If you are truly shining, you will irritate people who are committed to the dark. If you are standing in truth, you will trigger people who are living in a lie.
This isn’t personal. It’s structural. You cannot pour a gallon of water into a shot glass without making a mess. The mess isn’t the water’s fault. And it isn’t the glass’s fault. It is just physics.
Stop apologizing for the spill. And stop trying to wipe up their floor. Stand in your place. Keep pouring. The right vessels will show up.
Really sharp analogy using electrical resistance to explain interpersonal dynamics. That voltage metaphor cuts through all the people-pleasing guilt because it removes moral judgment from the equation, just incompatible systems. Been seeing this alot in how certain ideas get violently rejected not becasue they're wrong but because accepting them would require too much rewiring of someone's whole worldview.